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In ER tonight finding out if my kidney is misbehaving. Seems so to me, but tests will tell.

Daughters visit to her doctor was as unpleasant as could possibly be.Neurologist criticized daughters hair, clothes. She asked directly about daughters sexual history right in front of me. In our case it was fine,but usually should not be.done that way. She rebuked daughter for her school performance and changing from the child she had once been. Not fair to say to a teen 'why are you not the cute biddable creature you were at age 12?'

I really do not do medical stuff as a hobby. I would rather have spent my day some other way. Any other way.

Thinking fondly of you all. Sleep well internet people.



Jun. 22nd, 2014 07:34 am (UTC)
Hoping kidney is found to be behaving or can be encouraged to be and lots of thoughts and love from here

I already said what I think about a new neurologist and I think it is even more important after your recent experience.C does not need or deserve to be treated that way at all].Nor do you - you are both intelligent and capable women and a loving mother and daughter to boot and she is well oot of order.
I was for two years a member of a voluntary group in which neuro patients( including some with seizures ) were asked to work with young doctors who were hoping to specialise in neurology and we assessed their skills in listening and memorising and feedingback to the patient what they heard to check and also their engaging in a cooperative relationship...

It does matter - however good this womans knowledgle of anti seizure medication it goes far beyond that to be a good neurologist. Docile children and grateful parents - what a boost to a docotrs ego - she is her own witness to her own problem.
As she should remember First do no harm.